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Adventures in Uprooting: Landmarking

Futon-crashing is not the ideal way to get into the spirit of a new home base. The nomadic style of living was never my bag-o-tricks, if only because I’m not the most efficient packer, and I enjoy having stuff that I may not actually need. Living out of a duffel makes it near impossible to remember what you’ve brought with you, and when your focus is trained elsewhere (say, on trying to quickly metabolize vast amounts of new-job information), there isn’t much time or will to re-sift and reorder for some semblance of organization. So while I’d be thinking a lot about my once-was home anyway, I find I’m thinking about it more because I currently live in a cubby-hole in my sibling’s apartment. Not to worry though, that will change by the end of this week.

A growing number of people I’ve met so far, upon learning about my move, have asked me how City B compares to City A. I like to think I give a rather diplomatic response, that the two are incomparable. Or that I can’t quite answer that yet. While both responses are true, the most accurate would probably be that A is by far superior than B (a highly biased opinion). And while wandering around City B (not as much wandering done as I plan to do once out of my nomadic slump), I’m not in the right mind set to notice much new. Mostly the familiar. The bits and pieces of my precious A, easter eggs, hidden among the credits of B. It’s a fun game. It let’s me find things like this:

And these friendly familiarities serve as a different kind of landmark, besides the obvious ones that make City B what it is.

 

Adventures in Uprooting: Prologue

Every single moment is a coincidence.

Montreal Skyline
It’s not a new story.

You know the one: Small Town Girl moves to Big City to Start New Life. But this one’s personal, so details matter, and with the details we’ve got something a little more like the following:

Small Girl moves from Small-Big Island Metropolis to Big-Big Mainland Gotham-Equivalent(ish) out of Necessity (and Language Deficiencies) to Start Career.

As much as I’ve always told people how much I felt the need to leave my home city, the anxious fidgets of a young thing seeking to grow a wingspan, a good chunk of me (let’s go with half) was continuously desperate to cling. To stay put. And there’s good reason for that, because up until last week I’d been living in the same house, on the same street, in the same ‘burb for a near-quarter century. That’s not a sneezable number. Businesses celebrate continued success at earlier stages in their existence. But living static for such a long time doesn’t encourage you to understand a city on a deeper level, doesn’t incite you to explore. Not really. It’s a comfort zone thing. You know your places, your hang-outs, your show-off-to-out-of-towner spots. Aspects of life that shift when you shift home bases, and like a fair number of my peers (though by no means all), I hadn’t done that.

I spent the better part of the year looking ahead instead of looking around, but there’s really no use dwelling on that. Cities can’t lift their skirts and scurry elsewhere the way people can, and the distance between where I’ve arrived and where I began is as long as a 6 hour car ride (with a tight watch on the speedometer). I have plenty of opportunity to backtrack, revisit and visit afresh.

What’s missing between here and there are the details, the experiences that breathe life into a city, and mine are all tethered to people. My people are important and it’s fumbling around without them that’s going to be the most trying at the start.

There are no comfort zones here, not yet, but I’ll sniff them out.

Toronto's Skyline at Sunrise